Myrtle Flowers

Last Updated on December 17, 2025
Myrtle (Myrtus communis) is an evergreen Mediterranean shrub bearing small, starry white flowers with showy golden stamens and a warm, resinous citrus-herbal scent. Long revered in Greek and Roman tradition, it is a classic wedding foliage and flower symbolizing lasting love and fidelity.
Message Tone
Gentle, faithful, quietly romantic
Relationship Safety
Best for partners, close friends, family
Care Effort
Moderate attention, benefits from consistency

Gift Lifespan

Around one to two weeks
Flower Language
Myrtle quietly speaks of lasting love, loyalty, and the hope of a harmonious shared future.

Quick Flower Gift Guide

  • You want to symbolise devotion, loyalty, or a long-term commitment.
  • You are celebrating engagements, weddings, or anniversaries with a subtle, meaningful touch.
  • The recipient appreciates traditional symbolism and understated, elegant greenery.
  • You are gifting to a couple starting a new home or life together.
  • You need a very low-maintenance gift for someone rarely at home.
  • The occasion calls for bold, dramatic colour rather than subtle greenery.
  • You are sending sympathy flowers where traditional blooms are expected for comfort.
  • The recipient prefers large, showy blossoms instead of fine, delicate foliage.

Meaning & Symbolism as a Gift

Myrtle flowers carry a gentle, timeless charm associated with love, fidelity and blessing, making them ideal for romantic partners, close family and meaningful life events.

Faithful love and marriage

Myrtle has a long history in wedding garlands and bridal bouquets, symbolising lasting love, loyalty and a hopeful new beginning together.

Expression strength Quite direct and romantic

Etiquette safety Best for romantic partners and close family involved in the celebration.

Best setting Perfect for bridal bouquets, engagement parties and intimate anniversary dinners.

Colour hint Pair fresh myrtle green with white or soft blush blooms for a classic, romantic wedding look.

Avoid Too romantic for very formal corporate gifts or distant acquaintances.

Best occasions
Good for
romantic partner spouse fiancé(e) close friend parent

Blessing and good wishes

Myrtle sprigs softly express wishes for peace, protection and prosperity, making them a graceful way to bless a new chapter in life.

Expression strength Gentle and warm

Etiquette safety Safe for most semi-formal and family occasions when you want to offer respectful good wishes.

Best setting Lovely in doorway arrangements, dining tables or entry consoles to welcome good fortune.

Colour hint Combine deep green myrtle with soft creams, light yellows or pastel tones for an uplifting, blessing-like feel.

Avoid Not ideal as the sole element for very sombre memorials where more traditional mourning flowers are expected.

Best occasions
Good for
close friend parent grandparent colleague client

Remembrance with hope

In some traditions, myrtle can suggest loving remembrance joined with hope and renewal, offering gentle comfort rather than heavy sorrow.

Expression strength Subtle and reflective

Etiquette safety Suitable for personal sympathy gestures where a lighter, comforting tone is appropriate.

Best setting Best in small, calming arrangements for living rooms, bedside tables or memorial corners at home.

Colour hint Pair with soft whites and gentle greens for a quiet, hopeful mood.

Avoid May feel too light for very formal state funerals or culturally strict mourning rites.

Best occasions
Good for
close friend parent grandparent colleague

Gift-Giving Etiquette

How to Present
For weddings, present as fresh sprigs or a simple, elegant bouquet/garland; avoid heavy dyes or perfumes. Wrap in soft, light-colored paper or linen with a discreet ribbon. Include a note referencing fidelity or enduring love. Keep cool and hydrated during transit; avoid frost exposure.
Morning of the wedding or 1 day prior (keep stems hydrated and cool). For potted gifts, deliver in spring or early autumn for easiest establishment.

Card Message Ideas

  • Wishing you a lifetime of love and fidelity—like the evergreen myrtle.
  • May your union be ever‑green and ever‑joyful.
  • For harmony and good fortune in your new home.
  • With love that lasts through every season.
  • Congratulations on your engagement—may your love always blossom.

Things to Know Before You Gift This

Use this as a quick check if you’re gifting to a household with children or pets.

Myrtle is generally considered of low toxicity in ornamental use, though large quantities of leaves or essential oil can cause discomfort if ingested.

Risk areaLevelPractical advice
ChildrenLow to mild if ingestedDiscourage chewing leaves or berries and keep essential oil products out of reach; seek medical advice if larger amounts are swallowed.
PetsMild risk if ingestedPrevent cats and dogs from nibbling foliage or berries, and contact a vet if vomiting, drooling or lethargy appears after chewing.
Skin contactGenerally lowMost people tolerate casual handling well; wear gloves if you have sensitive skin or when pruning heavily.

If significant ingestion occurs or any worrying symptoms develop, contact a doctor, poison centre or veterinarian promptly for professional advice.

Helpful if you’re choosing for someone with fragrance or pollen sensitivities.

Myrtle flowers are lightly fragrant and typically produce modest amounts of pollen, so they are usually well tolerated by most people in indoor and outdoor settings.

FactorLevelSuggestion
PollenLow to moderate outdoorsThose with strong pollen allergies may prefer to keep flowering myrtle outside or use cut sprigs with fewer open blooms indoors.
FragranceFresh, herbal and moderately scentedPlace arrangements a little away from beds or workstations if you are sensitive to herbal or resinous scents.
Best placementFlexible, slightly better in ventilated areasUse in bright, airy rooms, hallways or patios so any scent disperses gently and does not build up in very small spaces.
For severe respiratory allergies, it’s always best to follow the recipient’s own doctor’s advice.
Before you decide on colours, check if any combination might feel awkward for this occasion or culture.

Colour meanings for myrtle arrangements can vary by region and tradition; the table below highlights some common associations and situations where certain palettes may feel sensitive.

Color/CombinationRegion/CultureCommon AssociationOccasions to Avoid
Pure whiteMany European and East Asian contextsOften connected with funerals, mourning and spiritual purity.Joyful birthdays, lively parties and romantic gestures where a celebratory mood is intended.
Very dark red with dense greenerySome Western and Mediterranean traditionsCan feel heavy, solemn or overly passionate depending on the design.Formal corporate gifts and lighthearted occasions where an intense romantic or dramatic tone is not desired.
Black-accented designsMany cultures globallyStrong link with grief, formality and sometimes bad luck.Weddings, new baby gifts and upbeat housewarmings that call for a hopeful atmosphere.
Neon mixed colours with myrtleGeneral Western business giftingSeen as playful, casual and sometimes less refined.Very formal events, high-level corporate ceremonies or traditional religious celebrations.
All-green, very sparse paletteSome European and Middle Eastern contextsMay read as austere or symbolic of restraint rather than celebration.Milestone birthdays or anniversaries where a fuller, more colourful expression is expected.